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RDOilerfan wrote on Wed, 01 May 2024 16:01

inverno76 wrote on Wed, 01 May 2024 15:49

RDOilerfan wrote on Wed, 01 May 2024 14:59

NetBOG wrote on Wed, 01 May 2024 13:27

I've got a bad feeling about tonight's game again. This LA team is better than they have been playing. Desperation will get them tonight's win.

I hope I'm wrong.

Do you ever have a good feeling?



I have a feeling that your comment will trigger an emotion.

I think it is pretty normal to have a bad feeling, or doubt with tonight's performance. It is not life and death, but our fan base has experienced a lot of trauma in the past 20+ years. I do not share NetBOG's fear, but I understand where his brain is at.




I am sure you are right but I don't get it.

Were they bad for a long time? Sure they were.
Did it suck? You bet it did. I am in my 40's, I know all about the bad years. I watched a lot of bad Oilers teams.

But when do fans get over it? Do some of you guys still mope about your highschool girlfriend who dumped you decades ago even though you have a great home life and family? The Oilers are a good team, they have been for a while now. Why not show a little confidence and positivity in your team
and enjoy it vs assuming the worst because 20 yrs ago, they lost a certain game. Some of you guys need to let some things go, seriously.


That's the thing with trauma and you do not need to get it, but we need to have some empathy. For some of us, our investment in this team is unhealthy and the wins and losses impact us more than others. I am one of these people and I realize it is stupid and I have zero control of the outcome, but here I sit on my keyboard wearing my McDavid jersey and Oilers hat, with nervousness mixed with excitement for tonight and the rest of these playoffs. Everyone get's over it on their own time. Just because one person can move on, does not mean the next can. I never experienced a playoff game for the entirety of 30's. I am now 48, and i think I am just coming out of my funk, but whenever we make a move that looks sketchy I fall back into my past thoughts of "here we go again".

The imminent contracts expirations of Draisaitl and McDavid also impact many of us. As far removed we are from the decade plus of darkness, it is easy to see us being bottom dwellers again. Telling someone to "let it go" is like telling your significant other "are you still mad?". The response from such a comment will likely face a lot of backlash from the people who are working through where you already have got too. Your ability to navigate this team's struggles is the way you cope. It might be the best and smartest way to move forward, but it does not mean others will or have to follow suit. I enjoy your takes. I do not agree with you on all things, but I take it with a grain of salt. I also know as soon as you respond in a certain manner I know you are going to get a lot of flack. Too be honest I enjoy the chaos you bring to the forum. For the most part I just eat popcorn and wait for the explosion.

Go Oilers Go! Just win baby and let the Mustiness fly and hopefully this is the year I get bust open some really nice Rum's I have been saving for a Stanley Cup summer!

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